“Write what you know.” That’s the advice everyone gives new authors when they’re struggling to figure out what to write. My mentors gave me that same guidance. “OK then,” I thought. “I’ll write about things that have happened to me.” But here’s the problem: my life is boring—with a big ol’ capital B.  I don’t […]

Inspiring Stories

January 21, 2025

The Story I Almost Didn’t Write

My husband and I are empty nesters, which means our pets have officially become our “kids.” One of those kids, our golden retriever ZZ, had his third birthday last week. Naturally, we couldn’t let the occasion pass without a proper celebration. I made goodie bags for his doggy friends at play care and baked cupcakes […]

Inspiring Stories

January 14, 2025

Burnt Brownies and a Lesson in Love

My husband and I have reached that stage in life where we are officially “hard to buy for.”We don’t need more “stuff” — clothes, jewelry, gadgets (especially gadgets, because half the time we can’t figure out how to use them anyway). We’re happy with what we’ve got. But, I’ll admit, there’s been one thing I’ve […]

Just for Fun

December 17, 2024

Unexpected Gifts

I love making lists. There’s just something so satisfying about checking an item off—Accomplished! Yay! Lists help me stay productive and give me hope that I can finish what I start. Except…my yearly New Year’s Resolution list.I just can’t seem to master that one. Then, my lovely son-in-law told me about a New Year’s Resolution […]

Try Something New

December 3, 2024

A New Twist on New Year’s Resolutions: BINGO!!

This weekend, my computer screen broke. Instead of shelling out money for a new screen, it made more sense to invest in a whole new computer—my old one was, well, showing its age! Plus, with Cyber Monday around the corner, it seemed like perfect timing. But let me tell you, being computer-less was an eye-opening […]

Try Something New

December 3, 2024

48 Hours Without a Computer – What I Discovered

Last week, I spent time in the Outer Banks for a little family reunion. It was lovely! There’s something about the ocean that makes seeing family feel even more special. But one of my favorite parts of the trip wasn’t a big gathering or a group activity. It was the quiet, early-morning walks on the […]

Inspiring Stories

November 19, 2024

Ebb and Flow: Life Lessons from the Shore

So lately, I’ve had an influx of doctor appointments. Pretty typical once you reach a certain age, right? I’ve got a rotating list of specialists to see! There’s the audiologist, cardiologist, urologist, rheumatologist, ophthalmologist, gastroenterologist, dermatologist, neurologist, and let’s not forget the dentist! Whew—it takes a whole village of “ologists” to keep an aging body […]

Just for Fun

November 5, 2024

Lost, Stressed, and Overdressed: A Doctor’s Visit Gone Wrong

Like most people, I have a scale in my bathroom. And like most people, I’ve mastered the art of avoiding it. “I don’t have time,” I tell myself, or “The scale’s probably broken anyway.” Anything to delay that moment of truth. But recently, I had a legitimate excuse—the batteries in the scale were dead.  Hallelujah! […]

Inspiring Stories

October 21, 2024

The Scale vs. My Sanity: Who Wins?

I’m a notoriously healthy eater—whole foods, lots of veggies, the works. Desserts? Usually not my thing. But… I do love a good white cake. And when it comes to white sheet cake, Costco’s takes the (ahem) cake. It’s the one time sugar and preservatives make my mouth water. But wait—you’re wondering, what about all those […]

Just for Fun

October 8, 2024

5 Rules for Guilt-Free Cake Eating

When I taught kindergarten, I avoided swear words like the plague. I figured if I let a few slip in private, one might pop out at work—and that would’ve been terrible! So, I kept my vocabulary squeaky clean. 😇 But then I retired. And, oh boy, I started developing a bit of a “potty mouth!” […]

Just for Fun

September 24, 2024

Those Are Swearin’ Words!

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