I’m a notoriously healthy eater—whole foods, lots of veggies, the works. Desserts? Usually not my thing. But… I do love a good white cake. And when it comes to white sheet cake, Costco’s takes the (ahem) cake. It’s the one time sugar and preservatives make my mouth water. But wait—you’re wondering, what about all those […]

Just for Fun

October 8, 2024

5 Rules for Guilt-Free Cake Eating

When I taught kindergarten, I avoided swear words like the plague. I figured if I let a few slip in private, one might pop out at work—and that would’ve been terrible! So, I kept my vocabulary squeaky clean. 😇 But then I retired. And, oh boy, I started developing a bit of a “potty mouth!” […]

Just for Fun

September 24, 2024

Those Are Swearin’ Words!

We’ve all heard that positive thinking can help us manage stress and cope better with life’s challenges. But how do you actually get into the habit of maintaining a positive outlook? For me, the answer was trying the “10 Good Things” method. Whenever negativity creeps in, I pause and make a mental list of ten […]

Inspiring Stories

September 10, 2024

The 10 Good Things Trick: How to Turn Your Day Around

I’m not exactly what you’d call fashionable—and that’s perfectly fine with me! I’d take comfy sweats over Gucci any day, happily swipe my daughter’s hand-me-down makeup, and choose a peaceful walk over a pricey concert. It’s just how I roll. But here’s the kicker: turns out, I’ve been in vogue all along—and I had no […]

Just for Fun

August 27, 2024

Fashionably Rested

I am a creature of habit. I like following a straight, narrow path, knowing exactly what lies ahead. Take restaurants, for example. I always order the same meal: salad (no meat, no cheese, no croutons, oil and vinegar dressing) and the same drink—water and a glass of chardonnay. Every two weeks, I visit the same […]

Inspiring Stories

August 13, 2024

Life’s Detours: Learning to Pivot with a Smile

I’ve decided to start saying “yes” to trying new things. They say learning something new is great for older adults—it sharpens memory (which I desperately need) and helps you rediscover yourself. Rediscovering myself? That sounded pretty cool! So… I tried fencing. One of my boxing buddies was raving about the joys of fencing, and I […]

Try Something New

July 30, 2024

I Tried Fencing…and Discovered Something Unexpected

I don’t know about you, but I’m my own worst enemy.Believing in myself, trusting my abilities, and convincing myself that “I can do it”—it’s always been a struggle for me. In every aspect of life. Until… I met my boxing coach. Lucky for me, he didn’t put up with my excuses. ME: That’s stressing me […]

Inspiring Stories

July 28, 2024

Silencing Self-Doubt: Conquering the Voice Within

Core strength. Without it, the body is weak. Strong core muscles make climbing mountains, running races, swimming laps—heck, even everyday tasks—so much easier. But this week, I realized there’s another type of core strength that’s just as important: emotional core strength. And wow, do I need to exercise that more. Here’s what happened. Life was […]

Inspiring Stories

July 16, 2024

Building Strength – Inside and Out

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